I went to a confidence building clinic with Xen and Chiron a few weeks ago. The flyer talked about trust and understanding – 2 things I’m all for. What I wasn’t ready for was the aggressive way the clinician handled Xen during the round pen demonstration.
Xen was confused by the clinician’s methods and tried to jump out of the too tiny circle. I watched in horror as he got tangled in the 6 foot panels with one hind leg and one foreleg stuck between the bars. He dangled there patiently for over 5 minutes while an exit plan was devised. When the panels were unhinged, they all flipped over and Xen extricated himself from his prison. He had some lacerations but by all accounts, it was a miracle he did not break his legs.
Last night I received an email from the sponsor of the clinic outlining a perspective that is in stark contrast to mine. I saw a horse who was confused by contradiction and violence. She saw a horse who left the round pen not because he was scared but because he saw it as an easy way out. She continued to say that when we came to Xen’s rescue we did him a huge disservice by getting him free, fixing him up and then not addressing the situation that caused him to jump in the first place.
I know there many opinions about how to work and BE WITH horses but I don’t understand how someone can think that a horse who chooses to leave in the face of violence instead of meeting it with the same is unworthy of our care? I’m saddened that round pens are being used as mini coliseums and hope that one day soon, more and more people will hold their thumbs up so the voice of the horse can be heard.
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
P.S. When I went out to share how I was feeling with Xen, he stood tall and looked into my eyes. In his great exhale I heard, “Being hopeful is an intuitive call. Do what feels right in the service of love and only then can you beat the odds.”
2 Comments
3:44 pm
kate wood
What a horrible story! I can only imagine how upset you must feel. A number of years ago I took my mustang, who is so sweet, but young at the time, to a clinic, to someone who I had watched many times. She too got hung up with her ego and got into a huge fight with him, he was dripping wet before I got him away from her. I was furious with her and with myself! It has been many years since I have been able to put my horse in the hands of anyone else. Now I have started working with Robin Gates and believe I have finally found my community of like minded horse people.
I am glad you are telling this story, It helps all of us to step up and protect our horse friends.
Kate Wood
Orcas Island, WA
10:31 am
Sandra
Thank you for reaching out Kate. I tossed and turned over what, and if, to write but when my friend sent me the quote by Dr. King, the pen hit the paper so to speak. I see you are doing lovely work with mustangs – I must say that Shaman touched my heart at first glance. There really is something about them isn’t there…???
My friend Kim McElroy and I have the great opportunity to spend time with the mustangs at Return to Freedom again this September, while sharing Drawn to Wild Horses. I fell in love with the Choctaw horses when I was there 3 years ago, and Sutter, an incredible stallion who also touched my heart.
I love Carolyn’s work though have not had the pleasure of meeting Robin as yet. I’m happy to hear you have found your herd and thank you again for your comments.
Warmly,
Sandra